Dear Ladies, drawing our eye brow and looking all tushed is good business but I sincerely hope that whilst so much time is spent on that,
we are also checking other vital areas that will affect our children directly and the lives of those the Lord will entrust with us.
In my opinion, my children will be the most blessed and privileged set of people to have a mother like me. (oh yes) this is no bragging at all.
One day, they will stand to tell the whole world or at least to those who care to listen about how they couldn’t have imagined life with another woman.
They will write our stories on a marble and etch it on an epitaph.
( I’ll make sure this happens if Jesus tarries)
You see, I live a very intentional life that’s why I’m paying attention to everything that will make me become a blessing as well as TRAINING THEM IN THE WAY THEY SHOULD GO.
I am fast correcting all the errors that my parents were unable to correct in my life so that every past mistake and error is not repeated & past down to another generation.
Some of our parents were good and sincere people but largely victims of their poor mind sets.
Nonetheless, Some of them never paid mind to anything while we were growing up.
For some, it wasn’t entirely their fault, they were just ignorant of so many things; no wonder some of us had to make and learn form our own mistakes because nobody ever told us anything -(the right nor the wrong)
some of us had to emulate friends who were also children in themselves with little or nothing they know about LIFE.
The only thing some people rememeber about their parents is the flogging they recieved, the heart wrenching words telling us we will never be good enough.
Some of us never saw our parents love or express affection to each other so we grew up thinking it didn’t matter & so we never learned how to love ourselves much less, love another. Some of these parents failed us time and time again in every aspect.
Others try not to remember their parents because all the images they have in their head is the pretence of two people maintaining the status of being a ‘husband and wife’ with nothing to desire whatsoever. They didn’t live a “Life that Reflected Love.”
Perhaps they had, but never fed it with life cos it didnt matter to them.
some of us had to go through several “guess work,-trial and error” to discover our purpose. No wonder for some at our 20’s, 30’s and 40’s we still do not know why we were born.
The parents we see today were once young people like U and I.
Meaning that the children and youths of today will someday become parents- hence the dare need to pay mind to developing ourselves .
Do not neglect the place of building yourself thinking U are too young .
U are soon so be father and mother darling.
Keep in mind that you aren’t just raising a child, you are raising someone’s husband, a father and a leader therefore, there’s to pay attention to how you raise them.
Remember! Charity begins at home and it must not end there.
#BEING a PARENT DOESN’T BEGIN AFTER YOU are MARRIED and HAVE CHILDREN.
#Everything You are Becoming TODAY is already Shaping What Your Family will Become TOMMORROW.
Parenthood is the harvest of the character you invested overtime.
Guys! For history not to repeat itself, we the youths of today must be spur into becoming award winning parents, wives and husbands.
#iam determined to be the best of all walking in the sands of time with the help of God. ( you can do same)
There are destinies tied to you so much you cannot afford to be useless.
A wise man once said: old people have expereinece but do not have time to correct their errors, but we the young people HAVE BOTH THE TIME AND THE PREVILEDGE 0F LEARNING from their experiences and past mistakes.
Do yourself and generation some good to make a difference.
My people Let’s do this fa- just cos we can!